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How can I boost my body image for better sex?
Darlings, if you don't find your body sexy, no one can help you! So either make an effort to achieve a desired shape and weight or learn to find stuff you like about your body. It may sound whacked out, but try this: Stand in front of a mirror. And say aloud all the things you like about yourself... eg: Long hair, pretty eyes, soft skin, nice waist, sexy ankles, etc. It really works! Also wear lingerie that accentuates your assets and distracts from your flaws. If you have broad hips but a slim waist and full breasts, wear a baby doll that draws attention to your waist, flares out on the hips and gives a nice peek-a-boo of your cleavage!

2 Will my boyfriend be able to tell that I'm a virgin?
In an intimate relationship, the partner always 'knows' what the other is holding back. Honesty and communication are the best sexual lubricants for lovers. Start out by telling him that you have something important to talk about with him. Ask him whether he's a virgin before you leap into the truth tank and spill the beans about your own lack of sexual experience. If he's a newbie, too, it can be a ground to bond on. If not, enlist him as your guide into the world of sexual loving. Of course, use a reliable form of birth control and protection against STDs.

3 How can I get more comfortable initiating sex?
Initiating sex is like stretching unused muscles - the skill and muscles are there, but it feels awkward and new. Plus, there's that whole thing about girls need to wait for the guy to ask. And that women who are pushy in bed are not usually the ones who get to walk down the aisle. Perhaps you can develop a special 'sign' that indicates your interest, or use private emails, love notes or secret hand signals. That way you don't have to feel as if you are reciting lines from a bad porno flick to be the sexual person you want to be.