7 What can I do to get comfy with my guy's super size?
Yes, a large one can be scary! Well, the average erect penis is between 12 and 14 cm in length and 10 cm around. Just for fun, and perhaps to help put your mind at ease, wind a string or ribbon around his erect penis, then measure it. If his falls within the normal range, he won't feel he belongs in a freak show. Alternatively, if he is bigger than normal, acknowledging his hugeness may help you overcome your guilt about not being able to take him inside you without discomfort. One of the keys to accepting a large penis is being mentally ready. If you are tightening in fear of being hurt, it won't be easy. Instead, try to think of you two fitting together. You may want to use a lubricant like KY Jelly. Breathing can also help, especially if you can breathe together - in and out to match his thrusting. Breathe gently at first, then try to keep your breathing pattern slow and deep.

8 Why do men fall asleep after sex?
Despite the jokes associated with this situation - him snoring, her reaching out for more - most women are anything but amused by this behaviour. Unfortunately, men who fall asleep right after sex are merely giving in to biological forces. At orgasm, both he and you release the hormone oxytocin. It's the same chemical the body releases during breastfeeding, which makes babies sleepy. Why would a grown-up boy be any different? Oxytocin also triggers 'bonding' between mother and infant and may be what makes women want to cuddle after sex. Also, men and women hold their breath while in the throes of lovemaking, in an effort to sustain the tension before a climax. So, next time your honey is about to reach the finale, encourage him to take long, deep breaths. This will lessen his urge to snooze after the Big O.

9 Is there any easy way to know that my moves are going to please him?
You can learn to become a skilled oral lover without having to perform blow jobs, by the way. Many guys enjoy the sheer pleasure of being licked along the shaft or on the highly sensitive ridge around the head, of being teased gently with little bites around the head (be very gentle). Another hot spot where you may want to use your tongue is on the the point where the head meets the shaft on the underside.

10 Is there such a thing as too much sex?
You may be having too much sex if you are getting disinterested, it hurts or you feel no sensations. Also, probably the best sex is when you want it, and if you have sex all the time there is no room for building up the desire to do so.