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Ask Him To Be Your Valentine

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Telling a guy that you like him is no
big deal. Really. What's the worst that could happen? We did a little survey.
Here are some responses:
"He could say no." - Vaishali, 23
"He could
laugh! Imagine the shame!"- Sheila, 23
"He could introduce me to his
girlfriend." - Mahima, 25
"He could hear me!" - Sapna, 22
All
right, so things can go wrong. Maybe he won't respond quite like you hoped he
would. Maybe he will. That's beside the point. The important thing here is to
come out of the situation like a cool dudette - irrespective of the outcome.
The Build-Up
Do smile
at him a lot. (Don't overdo it. It'll scare him if you grin like a moron every
time he looks at you).
Do find ways of being in the same vicinity as he
is, so you can start a conversation (at lunch, while you're hanging out with
friends, etc).
Do ask him out. If you are afraid of how it may look, make
plans in a group and insist that he come.
Do give him special attention
when you guys are in a group.
Do encourage closeness. Share thoughts;
debate over different ideas (it's loads of fun).
Do fun things together.
Go for drives, late night desserts. Lots of friends do these things together.
And if he gets the hint along the way, all the better for you!
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And
Now... Confess
Be straightforward. Don't beat around the bush. Tell
him that:
• You really like him and recently you've been thinking of
him as more than a friend.
• You aren't expecting any kind of
response from him. If he likes you, that's great. If he doesn't, you're glad you
told him anyway. If someone felt like this about you, you would've liked to
know.
Don't be apologetic and send out a vibe of low self-esteem when you
tell him.
Don't make him feel like he's some sort of God and that you're
irretrievably in love with him. Love is too big a word. Don't use it before you
know what it means with him.
If you are too scared or shy to tell
him to his face, write him a note or even better, an email. Stay away from mushy
'I love you' letters - just a simple note telling him how you feel should be
good. Make sure you give it to him in his hand (if it's a letter) or leave it
somewhere that he can't miss it.
Otherwise imagine you sulking over
his lack of response while the poor chap never got his hands on the damn thing.
The pitfall here is the agonising wait for the response, or wondering if he's
had a chance to read it... we recommend face-to-face interaction. It says a lot
about your confidence. Guys like that.
And after all this, if he says
he likes you, well, you certainly don't need us to tell you what happens next.
Enjoy yourself, girl!
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