There
is such a thing as destiny.
I have faced very few disappointments
at the human level. It has been a long journey, from being a Stanford graduate
wanting to become a hotshot lawyer to helping out the deserving. I feel I was
meant to do this. Call it
destiny.
You cannot solve everyone's
every problem.
I don’t feel burdened by people pinning their
hopes on me. When I started out, a leading social worker told me, “You
will encounter all sorts of people during the course of your work. Some of their
problems will not be solvable. And the earlier you recognise this and distance
yourself from these problems, the sooner you will be able to successfully direct
your energies into solving other problems that require your
attention.”
Each experience in
life is unique and rewarding.
I went for the Stanford reunion in
the US recently where I met my illustrious peers, whom I had met last when I was
19. While talking to them I realised, and so did they, that my level of
satisfaction with life was higher. There was a sense of 'wholeness', of being
complete. This is what they feel they are lacking even in their retirement
years.
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