You can help your child through this crucial period of great physical and emotional development. By Christina Viegas

Adolescents aren’t out to ‘get’ their parents (though yes, it may often seem that way!); they’re just trying to assert their own identity.

Take It In Your Stride
Adolescence is a good time for both children and parents to let go, while still understanding that they are there for each other. It is a little before this stage that children attain puberty.

“Parents have to realise that their attitude towards puberty will influence how their young children will experience it. Both parents and kids should realise that puberty is nothing to be scared of and should not be viewed with fear,” states Dr Madhavi Raiker, MD, Raiker Nursing Home, Goa.

She continues, “It is just another, but very important milestone in child development.”

Maturity Counts
Dr Tosha, MD of Dr Tosha’s Clinic, Goa, advises, “Be prepared, during puberty and adolescence, for a spot of rebellion. Youngsters will want desperately to assert their individuality and what better way of doing this than by rebelling?

It’s now their turn to challenge the world, to fascinate the opposite sex, to be leaders. Take this jostle for power in your stride, even if you don’t feel too gracious about it.

That’s not to say that you should altogether relinquish your position of authority. A redefinition of the relationship, with respect as the focal point, will help you tackle most objectionable situations.”

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