We
believe Neelam Kothari is a Femina Platinum Woman because:
She
has the spirit of a child and the wisdom of a woman.
I
sometimes feel I am still 18. There's so much to do and see. When I introspect,
I realise over the years, I've become wiser when it comes to gauging people and
that is something that you only gain with age and experience.
She
believes in being honest and authentic.
I
have no qualms about admitting it: I am an introvert and I have a temper like a
soda bottle - there, I've said it. I am also an emotional fool, and I wouldn't
change any of these things about me. I am what I am.
She
knows her priorities.
My
priorities are family, then work. It's always been like that and I don't think
it will ever change.
She
has zero tolerance for hypocrites.
If
there is one thing that I really hate, it's hypocrisy. It really gets to me how
some people can say one thing but believe in something different.
She
chose to work in a film industry where she didn't know the language or the skill
initially.
I
had just completed my 10th standard and came down to Mumbai for vacations when
(film maker) Ramesh Behl spotted me. And although I laughed at the whole idea at
first (I could barely speak Hindi), I realised soon that it was a good escape
from the awful time I was having in school in Bangkok.
I
thought acting would be easy. I used to watch so many films - it didn't seem
hard. But not only was acting difficult, so was learning Hindi! I drove away
five tutors before I finally settled into learning the language.
She
came from an affluent family but never took her fortunes or her future for
granted.
Movies
were just an escape route for me at first. But I had always yearned to do
something extraordinary with my life and this seemed just that. My entry into
movies was a major turning point in my life. It encouraged me to shed my
inhibitions and awkwardness. I began to love Mumbai, and especially
acting!
She
never stops.
I
believe my biggest personal transition is the one I made when I went from being
actress to jewellery designer. I come from a family of jewellers but the change
wasn't an easy one. Today, my designs sell through Sotheby's and Christie's,
apart from outlets in India, Europe, US, Middle East and Asia. I feel proud when
people refer to me as actress/jewellery designer.