Couples who've called it quits after the engagement say it isn't over till someone says 'I do'. By Sejal Mehta

The end of a relationship can be devastating. You nurse your wounds, go over the whys, whens and the hows of the break... it's all you think about for a while. Now add to this scenario, social stigma, enquiring relatives and the guilt of hurting your parents.

And finally add to it, the pain of realising that the person you thought was 'the one', the person you had agreed to spend this lifetime with in front of friends and family, wasn't really 'the one' after all. The enthusiasm with which your trousseau was bought, the flowers were picked and the venue was selected, has turned sour. Uncomfortable questions have to be answered, character assassinations have to be borne, judgements and opinions - no matter how unnecessary - are given freely... it's a messy affair. And amidst all this, the 'breaker' and the 'breakee' have to find a way to deal with the life-changing experience... emotionally and practically.