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Just had a romp-around with your man for the first time? Find out what your guy's bedside manner reveals about him

SO, you and your guy decided to take your relationship to the next level. Well, while you may have 'made lurrv' and he 'had sex', there is a lot more you can tell about him. Here's your chance to analyse a few intimate details in complete confidence, right from when you get naked through to the immortal words he utters after the deed.

Romp Clue 1: The Location
His place: What you see is what you get, and this guy has nothing to hide. Bringing you home reveals a certain confidence, especially if he's prepared for it with soft lighting, mood music and a bottle of something ready-chilled.
Your place: He may want to make you feel comfortable by staying on your turf.
In a car: He's passionate and impulsive. And he loves the idea of exhibitionistic sex with the possibility of getting caught.

Romp Clue 2: How He Smells
Not so fresh: Cut him some slack if he's come straight from work. But if his neck is encrusted with grime, he's obviously made no effort to scrub up.
Shaved and Showered: He cares about making a good impression - but it could also mean he's vain.
Aftershave overload: He's been suffering from first-night nerves - you should take it as a compliment because he thinks you're a sex kitten.

Romp Clue 3: The Position
Missionary: He's a conventional guy if he opts for the tried-and-tested method for the first time. However, he may need encouragement to reveal his adventurous side.
You on top: He wants to check out your body and see how you perform in the controlling position. And doesn't mind handing you the reigns, which means he's a fairly secure guy.
Several: He's a champ in bed, committed to you both achieving multiple orgasms. He's hoping that if you're impressed, he'll get you into bed again - soon.

Romp Clue 4: The Post Sex Chat
He talks about the weather: This isn't as bad as it seems. He's probably worrying about his performance but is too embarrassed to mention it.
He's silent (and not sleeping): If it went well, he's probably just in recovery mode coupled with contentment. But if the sex wasn't great, he might be trying to figure out the fastest way home.

Get Physical: Sexy or Scary Facts?
What bonds couples?
Well that depends on who you're asking: Thirty one per cent of women and 79 per cent of men surveyed in the UK say great sex is enough to sustain a relationship.

Would you have sex with a new partner who refused to use a condom?
According to a Durex survey, only 26 per cent in India said yes. The French are the most cautious, only 9 per cent said yes, they would still take the risk.

Would you have sex with a new partner on the first date?
Globally, one in four people would have sex with a new partner in the first month.
In India, 17 per cent said they would. And 21 per cent said they'd have sex in the first week.
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