#3
Establish a comfort boundary
. Comfort
seems to be the key word here. Says Dr Purohit, a plastic surgeon at Lilavati
hospital, "A professional attitude has to be conveyed to the patient in the way
you behave. Women can easily judge when a doctor is examining them or is trying
to feel them up - even if they don't know the procedures involved." Avoid any
situation that can be misinterpreted. Respect the other person's comfort levels.
The minute you feel you've unintentionally crossed a line, apologise.
#4
Trust is important.
Make sure, if you
have to work together on a regular basis, that your clients trust you. "If my
muse has a problem with me touching her chin or back while getting her into
position for a shoot, I would not like to work with her," says fashion
photographer Faisal Pathan. "It makes me feel inhibited. I need creative freedom
to do my job. Also, this brings in issues of trust. If a model doesn't trust me,
it becomes difficult to work at all!" Unfortunately, there isn't always time to
establish that trust. "Lots of times, the designer just walks up and demands
that the model unbutton her top all the way just before she steps onto the ramp.
And she'll do it because he is paying her for it," says 19-year-old ramp model,
Avaneet Singh*. "People new to the scenario wouldn't dare to protest, nor can
they create a scene back stage at the last minute," she adds. It becomes your
responsibility, to establish that trust and make the other person feel
comfortable. In the models' case, they won't have a problem doing what the
photographer or the designer says if they trust them. And if the designer keeps
the last minute changes to a minimum and is constantly communicative with his
models, things would move smoothly.
#
5
Don't cross that line
. Don't take your clients for granted. If you
compromise them in any way, they WILL fight back. And then there'll be hell to
pay. "My young personal trainer would almost caress my stomach to check if my
abs were tightening! The first two times, I was embarrassed and confused but the
third time around I pushed his hand away and he got the message," says
24-year-old Neena Kalra*. Purvi Jain* agrees, "I fired my nine-year-old
daughter's Kathak teacher when I found him stroking her back one day with one
hand while showing her a hand movement with the other." According to us, the
dance teacher got off too easy!
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