Good bone structure
. This is the
arrangement of bones in your face that tend to age well, maturing like fine wine
as you grow older. Pristine bone structure is hard, even downright impossible to
develop later in life. However, what you can do is play up your assets with a
highlighter and play down your liabilities with a shader. Define your cheekbones
with just a hint of blush. Line your eyes from the centre just above the eyeball
if your peepers are a trifle close-set, from the inner edge if they are set too
wide apart. Lightly bleach your forehead and bare it if it's of decent width,
conceal it with bangs if not. Shade your jawbone subtly to give it a chiselled
look. Ditto the sides of your nose, to slim it.
Good
skin
. You know the kind we mean, it's the skin you admire on some models
or Bollywood actresses. It's skin that is one smooth wash of colour with no
gradations of dark and pale. It's blemish-free, healthy, glowing skin.
Now
this one you can work on though it calls for continuity, diligence and good skin
care products. Never ever forget to remove make-up at night. Never ever use
moisturisers or lotions that aren't of known and reputed quality. Never go out
into our perpetually searing sunshine sans sunscreen. In fact, avoid going out
at peak times (9 am to 3 pm) in summer. Eat right, which of course means
junking junk food.
Good
personality.
Now we are talking about the girl who walks into a room and
immediately owns it. She walks with a firm stride. Her laugh rings clear and
musical and yes, uninhibited. She tosses her tresses with abandonment. She knows
her worth. She knows just how she is drawing all eyes, and she revels in it. She
talks in a low-pitch but voices her opinions firmly. Oyez indeed, she's empress
of her world and it's a fast-spreading empire.
You
say you are not empress material. We don't agree. This is one tenet that you can
all too easily develop. Temper the pitch of your voice at all times. Wear
clothes that not only show you off to perfection, but also call out aloud that
you are one happenin' chick. Clear eyes and white teeth help, so see to it that
you are equipped with both. Develop opinions on what is happening around you and
learn to talk without that questioning, uncertain lilt in your tone. Be curious
but not inquisitive. Just be.
Good
shape.
Ideally, it's an hourglass shape. Failing which, the Botticelli
Madame or the Eastern houri figure. Then again, let's get real: a neat, trim
figure will do just fine. So lick that weight problem with a judicious mix of
exercise and controlled eating. Wear clothes that play up your figure - that
cinch your waist and reveal your smooth upper arms. Wear clothes that play down
your less-than-desirable figure flaws - that hide that pooch, that conceal an
apple shape. To misquote the Prince of Denmark, aka Hamlet, we say to you: Get
thee to a gym, girl.
Good
hair.
You've seen it in countless ads, movies, TV serials - the woman who
loosens and then shakes her long tresses, instantly transfixing everyone, male
and female alike, in the room. While long lustrous hair does it every time,
short hair cut expertly and kept in shining good health doesn't lag too far
behind. Use a good shampoo, condition regularly with a conditioner appropriate
to your kind of hair. Use glossy serums. Eat well so it shows on the hair you
grow. If you colour your hair (er, who doesn't these days), make those salon
visits regular so you don't walk about with you roots or greys showing. And
those of you already blessed with great hair: please pretty please, don't play
with your tresses. Just leave them be and let others rave.
Good
colouring
. That's an even complexion, be it pink, white, what we like to
call 'wheat' or gleaming cappuccino. Forget the perennial craving for fair skin,
just ensure your complexion is smooth and zit/blemish free. There are enough
medicating creams in the market to ensure that. Bleach dark areas so they even
up with the rest of your face. The exact match of foundation, used sparingly
though, will definitely ensure excellent colouring - for your face and neck, at
least.
Good
posture
. This is quoting your mother all over again: Sit straight, girl.
Don't slouch. Walk tall, with your head held straight. Hold in that tummy. Don't
shift weight clumsily from one leg to the other when standing. How you enter a
room makes the impression, and once a halo is imagined above your pretty head,
it takes something drastic for people to change their minds. So always walk like
a queen - and we don't mean Queen Victoria!
Good
ankles and wrists.
It's an old chestnut but like all hoary sayings it
still runs true - the nobility of a woman can be judged by the shape of her
ankles and wrist. Now, not all of us have slender ankles and small hands but
before we are labelled country bumpkins, here's a simple save-the-situation
tip: Groom your extremities. Away with hairy legs, serrated toenails, cracks on
the heels of your feet and bitten-to-the-quick fingernails. A good pedicure and
manicure works the magic required. So, acquire good ankles and wrists
immediately and keep them that way!
Good
smile
. Madhuri Dixit's main asset, right? Another easily acquired asset.
Get your teeth fixed, it's never too late to wear braces if need be. Get your
teeth polished, and smile a lot. After a while, the smiles will permeate your
innards and make you a wonderfully cheery person. A wonderfully cheery
beauty.
Good
fragrance
. All beauties through the ages made a habit of leaving a heady
trail of fragrance drifting in their wake. Some Hollywood icons were, in fact,
inextricably entwined with a particular scent. So, find your special signature
fragrance (this will take diligent research, though) and layer it so in time
your fragrance is you.