Many young couples return to India
because of their children, says Nandini Sundar
With India opening up
her shores and laying out the red carpet for foreign investors, a lot of young
NRIs seem to be coming back home. Is it an inherent need to be back in your own
country, close to your roots? Or is it a cultural feeling - wanting your
children to grow up amidst the Indian culture with strong family ties?
While many youngsters are still leaving the country for better
prospects abroad, we found a few odd balls - young, NRI-returned couples in
Bangalore city and decided to find out what really prompted their return, and
how they're coping with it all.
Kranti, who has done her masters in
computer science and worked in the US for more than 10 years but chose to come
back two years ago, says, "We came back because our long term goal had always
been to come back and settle in India. We were very happy there but, from the
children's point of view, we felt coming back would be better. Also, we wanted
to be close to our parents, they are getting old. We can take care of them
better if we are here as any city would be just an hour's journey away. "
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Says Padmaja
Bobba, a finance consultant, who lived in the US for a decade and a half, "We
are here for a short time, and we'll be going back. But I think coming back has
been good for the kids, they got to know the family better. Earlier they were
like aliens, my son Nihar would greet his grandmother with a 'Hi'. Coming back
to India they can understand our culture and values, and this is certainly good
for them."
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