Seductive talk that'll turn a man to putty? It does exist! Femina eavesdrops on some

DIP that voice down a notch or two, add a dash of throaty huskiness and talk about the last time you gave (or got) a glorious foot massage! If the hottie you're trying to seduce isn't steaming up with all the imagery, he must be gay!

Some of us do it unconsciously, others knowingly - but we all have a secret weapon of seduction, a topic of conversation that we start that we know for sure will charm the guy we're after. Some people will read this and think what we're suggesting is wrong. We admit it's about manipulating and meddling with people's emotions. Most particularly, those you wish to God would meddle with you.

In an ideal world, we'd agree. It would be great if everyone you wanted just fell in your lap, without having to play games. Unfortunately, real life doesn't quite work that way. Sometimes, you can spend hours drooling over someone at work or at a party with zero results. And it's when that happens that these techniques seem like a gift from heaven! They don't guarentee the guy will fall in love with you, but they will make him sit up and notice you!

Just remember, when you seduce, it's really a tennis match. You serve, the guy volleys back. And that kind of attention and positive response can really boost your self-esteem.