
Can engineers be 'Touchy feely'? Apparently they can... says
author Chetan Bhagat
I
remember the incident - I was in a restaurant, and one girl in our group was
especially charming. So I, like any other male, tried to put on a wooing act.
You know the routine, a nanosecond extra eye contact, a few more nods to
whatever she says, and attempts to throw in those one-liners which you know you
wouldn't if she weren't there.
And
it seemed to be working. She leaned forward when she spoke to me, and every now
and again, we'd have a small conversation of our own, separate from our group.
She laughed at my approach with the fork and knife, and I teased her about her
hair band, which had little teddy bears. Yes, we were flirting. A while later,
she asked me the question - what did I study? I said engineering, without any
particular meaning attached to it. And then like a cold metal rail, she went
stiff. My jokes weren't funny any more. Her eyes wandered to everyone else. What
was it?
Why?
Why? Why?
Two
days later, I still couldn't get over my great start that had dissipated
listlessly upon mentioning my education. Engineer? What was wrong with that? My
mom had wanted me to become one since I was five! I had to call her. 'So what
happened to you that day, hot and cold, missie?' And then she said, trying to be
nice, 'Well, it's just that I am skeptical about engineers as friends. I don't
know, they can be, you know, very logical and everything... not very touchy
feely'.