Chandler (from 'F.R.I.E.N.D.S.', for the uninformed few) comes back from the tailor's one day with a particularly disturbing bit of news. The tailor, recommended to him by his best friend, tried to feel him up while taking measurements for a new pair of pants. Of course, it's funny on the show and we all laugh (how can we not? It's 'F.R.I.E.N.D.S.') but inappropriate behaviour while at work is an issue that's very much a reality. So, the question is, in a professional environment, who makes the rules? Because sometimes, lines, which are already quite fine, are crossed - by a doctor, a client, your boss, your tailor, a fitness trainer - and it leaves you confused, maybe even unable to react the first time... because the offence is so well camouflaged. A friendly pat on your behind from your boss, an inappropriate brush-up by your tailor, an unnecessary contact during an exercise routine by your trainer... you know the drill.

Code Of Conduct

There actually exists an unspoken, undocumented, but very practised code of conduct. And professionals stick by it; of course, not the ones who want to make an evening out of taking advantage of you. Those leeches deserve to be beaten up, and don't you think twice about introducing them to the very finest slaps in your arsenal.

Rule Book For The Professional

#1 Explain your moves . A wrong move, intentional or misinterpreted, is an absolute no-no. Hitesh Rathod, Fitness Centre Manager at Gold's Gym, says, "I always tell my trainers to ask for permission if a certain routine requires them to physically help with stretches, bends, etc." In the same way, it helps if a doctor explains a procedure before, to ease the patient.

#2 Know the consequences and protect yourself . "It is a tempting scenario to work in," says Rathod. "I'm surrounded by beautiful bodies in great outfits all day, but I cannot afford to misbehave or I'll lose my job, plain and simple. This is a small industry and word of mouth is our biggest draw. Any nasty remarks about inappropriate behaviour can be very damaging."